The Feel Different™ view
See what is running you before you demand a solution.
The map begins with a feeling. Automatic thoughts can arrive with it. Beneath those may be an intermediary belief, such as “If I am rejected, it means I am unattractive.” At the core-belief level lies Source Code, the deeper learned structure that makes certain thoughts and feelings familiar. The fifth level, trauma or the Primary Sentence, is part of the Feel Different™ map. The purpose of the map is to recognise what is actually active instead of forcing every reaction into the same explanation.
A newly noticed prediction can sometimes be questioned or held more lightly. A repeated, identity-level conclusion may not move because you argue with it. The Meta-decision is the choice to recognise what level is active and to choose a response that fits, rather than forcing the same tool onto every experience.
A key distinction
Different levels need different responses.
Finish this sentence: “I feel anxious because I am convinced that…” Then look at the answer. Is it a prediction, an if-then rule, or a total statement about who you are? Use it to decide what you are actually meeting.
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