Project Anxiety

Not every anxious reaction lives at the same depth.

Feel Different™ uses five levels to distinguish the felt signal from the thought, rule, belief, or deeper charge that may be active beneath it.

The Feel Different™ view

See what is running you before you demand a solution.

The map begins with a feeling. Automatic thoughts can arrive with it. Beneath those may be an intermediary belief, such as “If I am rejected, it means I am unattractive.” At the core-belief level lies Source Code, the deeper learned structure that makes certain thoughts and feelings familiar. The fifth level, trauma or the Primary Sentence, is part of the Feel Different™ map. The purpose of the map is to recognise what is actually active instead of forcing every reaction into the same explanation.

A newly noticed prediction can sometimes be questioned or held more lightly. A repeated, identity-level conclusion may not move because you argue with it. The Meta-decision is the choice to recognise what level is active and to choose a response that fits, rather than forcing the same tool onto every experience.

A key distinction

Different levels need different responses.

Finish this sentence: “I feel anxious because I am convinced that…” Then look at the answer. Is it a prediction, an if-then rule, or a total statement about who you are? Use it to decide what you are actually meeting.

Continue Project Anxiety

Follow the part of the spiral you recognise.